One of the Phillips’ family’s dearest friends is Victoria Botkin, wife to Geoff Botkin, and mother to Isaac, David, Anna Sofia, Elizabeth, Ben, Luke, and Noah. For four years, the Botkins were our neighbors in San Antonio, and Victoria blessed all of us greatly through her warm hospitality, godly and practical counsel, and delightful company. She became a close friend and encourager to my wife personally and a source of community-wide blessing to all who visited her home or who were privileged to interact with her as she poured out love and biblical wisdom to those who crossed her path.
A true Proverbs 31 woman, Victoria models what it means for a faithful wife and mother to tend well to the ways of her household, and I would encourage ladies and their daughters, under their husband’s guidance, to consider being a part of her nine-evening online mentoring course.

Evenings with Victoria Botkin

Victoria is my beloved friend, a wise counselor and model wife and mother! Every young woman and mother would be wise to set aside the time to hear godly instruction from this precious woman of God. I treasure every conversation with her . . . and so should you. — Beall Phillips, wife to Doug Phillips
How does a wife help her husband be the man Christ wants him to be? How can she inspire him to love her? How can she discover the forgotten joys of being the helper God designed her to be? Beginning March 1, Victoria, beloved wife to Geoffrey Botkin, will host weekly online mentoring sessions for women as a homemaker’s resource to the worldwide Christian community. Victoria draws insight from 30 years of applying Scripture to life through her many adventures as the wife of Geoffrey Botkin and the mother to their five boys and two girls.

A vision of loveliness and strength, strong character combined with compassion, unmitigated courage built on a rock-solid testimony of reliance on God, an underlying sense of humor and broad intelligence, true love that grows only stronger despite difficulties . . . Victoria Botkin is all those things and so much more. She offers us as women not only a humble testimony to her faith in God, but the example of a life committed to serving Him through her joyful, studied service as wife and mother to exceptional people. I and my daughters are very excited about sitting at her feet and drinking in her wisdom through “Evenings with Victoria Botkin.” I can hardly wait! Please, come sit beside me . . . bring your embroidery or mending . . . It will be wonderful. — Becky Morecraft, wife to Dr. Joe Morecraft
Join Victoria as she discusses subjects such as woman’s great power, sinful tendencies, obedience vs. submission, independence vs. submission, freedom vs. submission, beauty, dress, makeup, respect, women’s rights, hospitality, speaking words of life, managing with grace, pitfalls of perfectionism in homemaking, Hollywood expectations, trials, trust, and cultivating personality. Victoria will begin each session by responding to pressing, appropriate questions from participants. Topic headings include:
- All about Eve
- All about Sarah
- The Proverbs 31 wife
- About love
- How to help your husband love you
- How to become a wise woman

My sweet sister in Christ, Victoria Botkin, is a loving and kind woman who exudes what the Word describes in Proverbs 31. What an incredible blessing it is to know her, for to know her tender persona is to truly love her. I so admire her obedience to the Lord. Victoria is most ardently a Titus 2 woman. She can always be caught affectionately and tenderly guiding some younger woman, and on occasion an older woman, right back to the unfailing Word of God. I admire this woman of bountiful wisdom and pray God’s richest blessings on her and her beautiful family. These sessions will encourage and benefit any woman who partakes of them. You don’t want to miss this amazing opportunity to hear the timeless wisdom of my dear sister. — Bridget Baucham, wife to Dr. Voddie Baucham
Sessions will take place Monday evenings from 8 to 9 p.m., Central Time, March 1 through April 26, 2010. The cost for these nine sessions is $49 per woman, and daughters may listen in with their mothers. The sessions will also be recorded and MP3s made freely available to participants shortly after each session, so that any who cannot join all nine sessions live may still hear what was discussed. To signup, click here.

Victoria is not just wise and kind — she is fun! Her gentle sense of humor always comes in at just the right moment to remind us not to take ourselves too seriously even as we focus on the important work at hand. I know that listening to Victoria teach online is going to be a marvelous experience. You won’t get to enjoy her delicious bread, but the savory goodness of her words and the kindness of her voice will surely bring a smile to your face and encourage your heart. I look forward to these sessions as a way to renew my own vision and learn new ways to bless my family. What a delight! — Jennie Chancey, wife to Matt Chancey

Victoria is real, practical, biblical, and refreshingly frank. It was easier for me to have my daughter Kelly so far away from me during her first year of marriage because Victoria was there and she understood her role in Kelly’s life as an older woman. The same kind of life-giving counsel Kelly received at that time, you will receive during these sessions. — Deborah Brown, wife to Scott Brown
To learn more about this course or to signup, click here.